to friendster or not...

I'm in a moral dilemma right now. Sure, I have several acquaintances or people with whom I seldom, if ever, communicate as my Friendsters. But I have two people with whom I've had fallings-out and one person who is friends with one of my ex-friends who was never my friend, and furthermore, is nasty to me. I want to de-Friendster all three of them.

But the question is, would that be an even bigger problem? Would I make more trouble for myself? Perhaps I should be generous and let them stay my Friendsters and if they choose to de-Friendster me, then great. Hmm....